What we stand for
Our Values
The power of consent: sensuality and adventure in a safe setting, celebrating encounters and exploring new things.
Three rules that always apply
1
No phones
At Libelle events, mobile phones stay away. For your privacy and everyone else’s.
2
Ask before you touch
No one is touched without being asked. You don’t owe anyone your attention, your time or a conversation.
3
Only an enthusiastic yes is a yes
Anything else means no. A no is accepted, no discussion.
Our Vision
Sexuality is an integral part of life, yet it is often separated from our everyday lives by social barriers. Seen as a whole, it is something natural, life-affirming and inseparable from our existence. It permeates almost every aspect of our lives, whether as attraction, affection or passion.
People come to Libelle events to engage with sexuality and their own inhibitions in different ways. This happens in conversations, in forming friendships, and in romantic and erotic connections that can and may arise here.
Our events offer a relaxed, informal setting for encounters without ruling out the sexual aspect from the start. Here you have the freedom to find out what you like, what you value and where your boundaries lie. You only know whether something is fun once you’ve tried it.
Libelle is a Safer Space, and we always follow the principles of safe, sane & consensual. Our vision is a world in which sexual openness and engaging with one’s own sexuality are a matter of course. Welcome to an open, respectful environment where you can discover yourself and grow.
Safe, sane & consensual
Sexuality needs a basis of trust between everyone involved and a good sense of your own desires and boundaries. It can and may be about sex, but it doesn’t have to be. Don’t expect everyone present to want sex, or that someone will have sex with you. You always decide for yourself, you never have to join in, and you accept that other people may become intimate with each other.
Safe
Only use practices you have safely mastered, and have protected sex. Everything you need for that is in our safer sex cabinet.
Sane
We value responsible drinking and don’t do illegal drugs. Only a clear head can respect boundaries.
Consensual
Everything is consensual. Respect other people’s boundaries and hold your own. If someone doesn’t accept a no, or you witness discriminatory behaviour, turn to our Awareness Team, the bar or the door.
To keep Libelle sustainable as a sex-positive space, violations are sanctioned, up to and including a ban from the venue.
Good to know
Growth: living authentically
Freedom, self-acceptance and sensuality. Living your needs means a more fulfilling quality of life. We often hide our true feelings, facets of our personality and sexual desires because of social expectations. We encourage you to discover your own sensuality and experience the freedom of being yourself.
In a safe environment you can experiment, feel connected and build a deeper relationship with yourself. You get to know your desires, fears and personal boundaries. Every step on this path is individual and can be fulfilling, exciting and enriching. It can also bring emotional challenges when deeper issues come up. Throughout, our core principles remain safe, sane & consensual and a safe space.
Sex-positive: sexuality as a positive force
Sex-positive emphasises a fundamentally positive view of sexuality: as a source of pleasure and experience and as a path to self-discovery. But sex-positive also means respect for each person’s individual choices regarding their sexuality. That includes accepting every sexual orientation and identity, asexuality, and the choice to abstain from sexuality.
Libelle creates a space where sexuality can be talked about openly and without judgement, and where everyone may live it in their own way. Regardless of orientation or identity, mutual consent always comes first.
Your first steps
If you’d like to explore, we recommend one of our workshops. In a safe, supportive environment you’ll find out what you enjoy. You’ll meet open, friendly people here, and the chances of quickly connecting with others are high. Just approach people and start a conversation.
If you’d like some support by your side on your first visit, turn to the hosts or the team at the door. They’ll gladly show you around the venue and answer your questions.
Can I come alone or with someone?
You can come to most events alone, with partners or with friends. Some workshops require a fixed partner at the time of registration. This is stated explicitly in the event description. Libelle cannot match you with workshop partners. If in doubt, contact the organisers beforehand.
Respect for privacy
Everything that happens at Libelle events stays there. If you happen to run into someone you know and feel uneasy, bring it up. They may well share the same concerns as you. Mobile phones are not allowed.
Tickets and event information
You’ll find all upcoming dates under Events and Workshops. Tickets are available online directly on each event page and, unless stated otherwise, at the door. Some events require advance registration. Whether a workshop is sold out is stated in the description.
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