Dirty Talk

A workshop by Monika

“Dirty Talk” – The Language of Desire & Communication with Consent

Discover the power of your language in eroticism & intimacy

Words can connect, arouse, touch — and sometimes they block us right where we actually want to be heard and understood. In this workshop, we open up a space together for conscious, courageous and respectful erotic language, beyond insecurity or shame.

Depending on how we use our voice, we can come across as submissive or dominant.

You’ll learn how to express your desires clearly and confidently, how communication creates desire, and how presence & voice deepen your expression — without pressure, with consent and creativity.

Who it’s for: People who want to shape their erotic communication more consciously, courageously and
respectfully.

Setting: Sex-positive, safe space – focus on communication, emotion, presence and language.

Content & Structure

1. Arrival & Safe Space Check-in
– Getting to know each other, short round of introductions, shared rules (consent, respect, no physical contact).
– Mini warm-up for body and voice awareness.

2. What actually is “Dirty Talk”?
– Clarifying the term: from flirty to playful to sensual – beyond clichés.
– Why erotic language is often taboo – and how to break that taboo.

3. Voice, Language & Presence – together
– Exercises on pitch, rhythm, breathing and emphasis.
– Playful experimentation with the voice: What does “desire” sound like – without getting explicit?
– Expression and confidence through voice and body language.

4. Communication & Consent
– How to express desires and respect boundaries.
– “Consent Communication”: language that creates connection instead of transgression.

5. Mini practice exercises (voluntary, non-touch)
– Developing role plays or partner exercises with words, eye contact and voice in small groups of 2-3 people
– Reflection in the whole group: How did it go for everyone, how does it feel when I speak with desire or playfully?
– Humor and self-confidence as a resource.

6. If desired, 2 mini “performances” in front of the whole group
– Those who want to can show what they worked out in the small group to everyone
– Feedback from the performers and the audience on the “performances” shown

7. Closing & Integration
– Feedback from everyone on how the evening was
– Optional small writing or reflection task to take home.

Goal & Impact

Participants learn to speak about desire, lust and fantasy openly, respectfully and creatively – without shame or transgression. It strengthens self-confidence, expressiveness and communication skills – in eroticism, relationships and everyday life

Additional information about the workshop:

Bring a notepad & pen

Doors open at 18:00 | Please arrive on time – doors close at 18:30!